Wednesday, June 25, 2014

5 Months

We definitely aren't newborns anymore!  This month has been trying, but with patience and persistence come great rewards!


I Love These Girls and Their Personalities So Much!

I think I mention this every month, but it cracks me up how differently these girls wake up!                                                                     

Exhibit A                                                      Exhibit B

Our biggest obstacle this month has been sleeping.  Now that Parker is not in pain anymore from her neck, and both girls have adjusted to their new formula, we decided it was time to sleep train them.  It got to the point that one of us (or me if it was during nap time) was in their room every few minutes putting a pacifier back in somebody's mouth or putting someone back to sleep.  On top of that, they were still waking up twice a night to eat, and Payton really showed no interest of eating much during the day.  Something had to change!  All four of us (Mommy, Daddy, and Babies) were EXHAUSTED ... Barrett was just as happy as could be!

I decided to get rid of the pacifiers.  Not because pacifiers are bad.  They have been a huge help to us keeping our sanity since the twins were born.  (Barrett never really took one when he was a baby and I always wished he had because it definitely would have helped!)  But there was a turning point where they couldn't keep them in their mouths, but they both wanted to keep sucking on them the whole time they were sleeping.  So one day I just decided I was done.  Although, I do think they were really cute sucking on them.  But something had to give.

Our sweet friend Rachel sent us a document that her mom typed up about how she has learned to sleep train over the years.  She's been helping moms do this since her children, who are grown, were babies.  It was so nice to have all of these great ideas and scenarios all in one place!  So we started one day, went through days and days and days of crying, and then one day they girls started waking up only once to eat and then went back to bed until around 9.  I'll take it!

Other changes consisted of starting rice cereal twice a day for their reflux, changing to sleep sacks instead of swaddles, not going in their room right when they woke up and started crying, and feeding them in lesser amounts when they do wake up at night.  Eventually we will phase out that feeding altogether, but I'm still not convinced they are getting the calories they need during the day.  Especially Payton.

The other huge change (that affects me more than the kids) is Aunt Mary volunteered to come to our house 3 days a week to help us out.  My life has CHANGED completely.  I can shower during the DAY,  make a quick grocery store run, go to my life group, and take Barrett out for mini-mommy-and-me-dates if I want to.  But I usually take a nap ;)  I feel like a new person!


Because I'm Happppppy


Precious Face

Tummy time hasn't been as intense lately since both girls can roll over now,  and they are sleeping on their tummies.  Even Payton stopped hovering with her hands by her side and pushes herself up.  Now that she's figured it out, she loves seeing everything around her.


Twin Ruffles

                                                                           

Rolling Over During Play Time


Heeeeey Seester

One of my most favorite things from this month is all 3 of my babies have started "playing" together.  The girls will look at each other and smile, and they both follow every move their big brother makes.  It so cute to watch both of their little heads move in sync as the runs around the room, dances, and sings them songs.  Barrrett's face lights up with pure joy when he makes one of his sisters smile.  He looks at me with a huge smile and yells "She smile at me Mommy!  She smile!!!" And then tries to make it happen again after he stops laughing himself.


Best Friends in the Making


Showing Sisters How Toys Work

Now that they can sit up (when propped) in their Bumpos, on the couch, etc. I decided it was time to let them try to play in the piano.  Or, as Barrett calls it, the "PAN-ee-oh"
This Girl Loves It!


She's Waiting Until She Can Ready to REALLY Have Fun!

Fun Pictures from This Month:


Taking a Time Out


The Girls


Fightin' Texas Aggie Class of 2036


"Mommy, It Is Ok If I Hug Sister?"


All Dressed Up


Parker and Mommy


Payton and Mommy


Mini-Man and Mommy


Where There's a Will, There's a Way


Family Time


Say What?


Help?


My Favorite Spot


Daddy's Little Girls


Apparently, They Didn't Feel Like Taking Pictures


Cutie Patooties


Smirk


Such a Happy Girl


Look Mommy!  I Can Do This Too!
 (Finally)


Big Brother's Version of Tummy Time

Things We Don't Want to Forget:
  •  the way both girls hold our fingers while they drink their bottles 
  • the way Barrett is mesmerized by everything they do
  • Payton trying with all her might to sit up on her changing pad, in her car seat,in our arms .... always trying
  • Parker wanting toys that are just out of her grasp ~ she may be the first crawler
  • the different ways they talk: Payton babbles and Parker sounds like she's trying to clear her throat all the time
  • Parker's giggles (Payton's are a little more difficult to get out of her, but equally as cute)
  • they way Payton giggles for Barrett ... and rarely anybody else
  • the smiles on their faces and how hard they start kicking when Mommy walks in the room.  nothing like a tiny person who can't talk and only communicates by crying letting you know that she's glad you walked in the room

5 Month Picture Out-Takes:



 Payton Is Not So Sure About This


Hey, What is She Doing Over There?


Whoa, When Did You Get Here?


Mommy and My Girls


Saturday, June 14, 2014

Father's Day and Daddy's Birthday Week!


Father's Day Weekend started with EVERYONE sleeping in!  The twins woke up about 7:00 (after sleeping ALL NIGHT), ate, and went back to sleep until about 10:00.  Because of this, Matt and Barrett got to play all morning without being interrupted!   They rarely get any "man time" these days.   

On Father's Day we went to church, lunch, and then family nap time!  (Hallelujah!) 

Daddy and His Little Stinkers 


After nap time we headed out again for dinner. 
The Boys

Making Sure Parks is Ok

Pay and Mommy

Then we moved on to celebrate Daddy's birthday.   We put together presents and played:
The Kids' Present: Candy and Treats from Canada 

Giggles Girl

Watching Daddy

Making Daddy Brownies with London

He Loves to Stir

Presents, Treats, and Candles Ready to be Opened!

On Matt's actual birthday, Little Man and I met him for lunch.
Best Buddies

And then Matt was surprised with an afternoon off work and babysitters until the morning!  So we went to the movies, opened presents with the kids, and then went out to a nice dinner. 

We hope you had a fun week of celebrations!   We love you. Thanks for taking such good care of us all the time!
Love,
Alli, BooBear, Parks-a-chord, and PayPayMcRae

Friday, June 13, 2014

Whole New World



The twins have been spending a lot more time lately in their Bumpos.  They get so excited to see things from a different view!  We have been spending more and more time "eating" lunch all together.  Well, Barrett eats.  They watch.  And he tries to entertain them.  It's pretty cute

 Heeey ... What are They Doing Up Here?


Playtime

 Do We Get Food Too?

Hey Mommy

 Love It Up Here

 The Whole Gang While Daddy is at Work

Surprise Attack Hug!

Friday, June 6, 2014

Road Trips


Road trips these days are ,,,,, interesting.  I never know what I'm going to get in the car on the way there.  The twins don't seem to love riding in the car as much as Barrett did when he was a baby.  They don't hate it, but I wouldn't say they necessarily love it.   We visited  Gamma and Poppy for the weekend because I had a baby shower to go to with all of my college friends close by!

"Mommy, is this better?"
After he put the entire pillow case over his face and head

So Excited that Mommy Came Home

All 3 of my kids got to see my grandmother while we were there over the course of the weekend.  Maw-Maw has had a rough few years.  Her brain isn't quite what it used to be, and having a conversation with her can be difficult because she doesn't remember much.  I was so happy to see her in high spirits this particular weekend. 

Barrett

Parker

Payton

And I Got a Little Maw-Maw Time Too

She was a little confused when we ran into her at while we were eating.  She kept telling me that my grandpa was going to be so jealous that she got to see me and my kids.  My grandpa has been gone for quite some time.  But it got me thinking about the great-grandparents that they never met.  

Kids, your great-grandparents would have ADORED you.  Paw-Paw (Mommy's grandpa) would have thought that every single thing you did was the best thing ever.  He loved hugs and kisses and showing off his grandchildren.  Family was everything to him, and he would have thought you each hung the moon.  Although he never met you, I know that he loved the idea of each of you.  And he would have been so proud to be your great-grandpa.  Daddy's grandparents, Grandpa Tom and Grandma Mary, would have encouraged you to be your very best.  They would have encouraged you to find something you loved and go for it with all your heart ... and these talks probably would have happened at the duck pond while you were feeding ducks.  It's important to know where you came from, and although you never met them, I hope you ask us questions about what our grandparents were like.  And what our parents were like.  And our brothers and sisters while we were growing up.  


We always go out for and adventure at Gamama and Poppy's, and this time we went shopping.
Parker Loving Life Back There

Happy Payton Girl

Some Girl Time While Big Brother Was Outside Playing:
Cute Twin Moment

Thursday, May 29, 2014

What the Day Brings

Dear Barrett, Parker, and Payton, 

One day Mommy and Daddy will tell you about how we waited to meet each of you.  One day we will tell you how he showed us what real faith in Him looks like.  One day we will tell you all about the love we already had for you before you were even here.  One day, probably when you have your own babies, you will maybe see just how special you are to us.  One day.

Barrett, you are our little miracle.  God saved you when you were still in my tummy.  We are so thankful that we were able to witness one of God's miracles ... and that our miracle was YOU!  

Parker, you are the baby girl that we waited years to meet.  We prayed that one day we would get to meet our Parker Girl, and you are an answered prayer.

Payton, you are the baby we didn't expect to meet.  You are our bonus baby that completed our family.  Without you here, a piece of my heart would have been missing, and I am so thankful God gave you to me at the same time as your sister.

But today is not that day.  Today is a day that Mommy celebrates.  Today is a day that I am thankful. Today is a day where I can't help but reflect on how God prepared me to be your Mommy.

One year ago today we found out that Barrett was going to have a brother or sister.  One year ago today my heart was heavy because I knew it was going to be a long wait to meet you.  One year ago today I didn't know that we were going to have twins.  One year ago today I prayed like I had never prayed before.  One year ago today marks the end of a heartache I had been carrying for so long.

I never know what to expect each day.  We have days like this: 







And then we have days like this:





 And then, well , there are days like this:



We can't predict what the day is going to bring us.  Just like we can't predict that path God had laid out for us.  It was hard.  It was filled with sleepless nights.  It was filled with prayer.  It is our story.  A story I would not change a single part of because it led me to you.   If just one part of our story had been changed, you would not be here.  I would not be your Mommy.  And I love being your Mommy.  

We don't know what each day will bring.  But we do know that each day is filled with a promise.  We promise to teach you about all the lessons we learned while we were waiting for the day we got meet you:
  • We promise to teach you about Jesus and how much he loves you.
  • We promise to show you how to lean on God when life doesn't go your way.
  • We promise that we will let life happen to you so that you can learn how to pick yourself back up again before you have to conquer this world once you leave home.  
  • We promise to show you how to be a good friend to others.
  • We promise to show you how to stick by your friends in the tough times and how to celebrate with them in the good times.
  • We promise to teach you how to use the Bible to help guide you.
  • We promise to teach you how to be still and listen to what God is trying to show you.  
  • We promise to show you how to recognize Christ's love, and how to show His love to others.
  • We promise to teach you that God will never leave you.  
  • And we promise to love you and build relationships with each of you so that you know you can always come to Mom and Dad for advice, help, guidance, answers, or even just a hug. 
"Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen." 
Hebrews 11:1