Sunday, May 25, 2014

4 Months

What a month!  My sweet baby girls started off the month with fevers from their shots, had growth spurts at different times, moved into their cribs, and Parker has been visiting the chiropractor twice a week.  But, Parker has also started giggling and BOTH girls are trying so hard to roll over.  Parker is successful sometimes, but she usually just gets mad when she gets stuck.  Payton looks like she wants to roll over, but gets stuck and gets comfy in her "look Mommy I was trying to roll over" spot.  

 The biggest issue we've had this month is their formula.  Apparently they have a reaction (i.e. screaming and arching their backs) to lactose in addition to their reflux, so we have had to play a bit of a guessing game to find the right one for them.  It's a bit exhausting, but pretty soon we'll be eating solid foods and not just formula.  So I'm hoping that helps with their little digestive tracks.  We've been trying a few essential oils to help with their digestive tracks.  
(Stay tuned to next month's blog to see if it's been working!)

They haven't been sleeping as well as they were last month.  Partly due to the whole formula issue, and partly because they are transitioning from newborns to infants.  But we'll figure it out.  The bright spot is they are still pretty good about falling back asleep after they eat in the middle of the night.  And I always keep lots of coffee in the house for the next morning! 

Happy Twins

 Parker

 Payton


 Happy Twins STILL

 Parker Laughing

 Payton Laughing

 Somebody thinks Mommy is FUNNY!

We started the month with a trip to Gamma and Poppy's, and then went to the Woodlands for Jordan's baby dedication.  Pictures from her dedication are on Aunt Lindey's Blog .

  
They LOVE Their Gamma

And Poppy Is Funny

 And They Learn a Lot From Him ;)


Tummy time is still a huge part of our day!  Sweet Big Brother loves to be anywhere his sisters are.  And this includes doing tummy time with them! 

Just Wanting to Be Close

Payton is Doing So Good!
(And I think her head is evening out)


Parker Playing with Big Brother

I walked out of my room to find all my kids like this: 

And then turned around for a second, only to find them like this:
He Loves His Sisters So Much!

 I keep trying to put both girls in my lap to snuggle at the same time...
... But It's Harder Thank It Looks!


 Daddy Does it Better!

Both twins decided it was time to start helping Mommy in the kitchen. 

Parker 

Payton

And I am continually amazed by how DIFFERENTLY these girls wake up!   Parker wakes up crying, screaming, thrashing around, and her swaddle looks like it's been through a shredder.  Payton wakes up so happy.  I don't even know she's awake most of the time. Sometimes she talks to herself while she waits for Mommy, but most of the time she just lays there and smiles at the fan.   Parker cries (at the top of her lungs) until she gets her bottle, and Payton is all smiles from the second I pick her up.  (Parker girl, I get it.  You wake up just like your mommy.  And your big brother. You just need a little time to wake up!)
Get. Me. Out Of Here!

Mommy, Don't Get Me Up Yet.  The Fan is STILL Moving! 

I continue to put a headband on them everytime we leave the house.  
Usually How it Ends Up

But So Cute When They Stay Put

Why Does Sister Cry When This Happens?  I'm Cool. 

I took both the girls to the chiropractor to look at their head shapes.  Like I said. I really think we have fixed Payton's issue on the side of her head.  But Parker isn't comfortable unless she's in this position:
Usually her head is resting on that shoulder and it was creating a pretty significant flat spot back there.  But the chiropractor said it was already looking better!  And it seems to be helping!  One of the interns who work there, Sera, has developed a sweet spot for my sweet  Parker girl.  She loves Parker and gets so excited when we walk in the door.  Actually, she begged and begged to come over and and play with Parker on her day off.  And Parker loved it because she got some undivided attention all day long. (It's hard beng a twin sometimes!)

I was able to catch Parker's First Giggle on video (totally by accident)
Parker Giggles

Payton's First Giggle was actually at the chiropractor's office while she was adjusting her.  But she did it again the next day when Barrett was chasing his friends outside a restaurant and ran right past her.   But she likes to play the "I Love You" Game too!

Payton and Her "Almost Giggles"

More Pics From This Month:
This Looked Different in My Head

Pay Loves Sitting on the Couch ...

... Figuring Out the Bumpo ...

... Help Make French Toast ...

... Snuggle With Daddy at Dinner ...

... And Snuggle With Big Brother

Daddy With All The Babes


Mommy and Big Brother

Goofball

Parker Loves to Smile and Giggle ...


... Snuggle With Big Brother ...

 ... Grow a Mohawk ...

... Practice Her Gymnastics ...

... Take Pictures ...

 ... And Roll Over Her Sister

Twins Watching Big Brother's Every Move

Story Time With Mommy ...

... Where There's a Will, There's a Way



 Awesome Bed Head

 Happy Payton

 Happy Parker

Sitting in a Chair is Even EASIER Now!


Things We Don't Want to Forget:
  • the look on their faces when they recognize Mommy/Daddy walked in the room
  • the way their eyes light up when I start playing with them
  • they way they smell after bath time
  • they way they cuddle after bath time
  • the strength it takes to not smile back at them when they want to play during their middle of the night feedings
  • the way their heads bop when they try to sit in the Bumpo
  • the precious sounds of their first giggles
  • how they watch everything Barrett does ~ pretty soon everybody will be playing together 
  • smiles in the morning
  • cheering them on to turn over on their own
  • how much Barrett loves his sisters and wants to be with them all the time


Outtakes from the 4 Month Photo Shoot
*it's TOUGH taking pictures of two babies













Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Zoo Day!

Barrett and I decided to take the twins to their first trip to the zoo today.   My friend, Kara, invited us last night, but I didn't tell Barrett until this morning.  He was snuggling (forcing her to like his face waaay to close to her face) with Payton when I asked him if he wanted to go to the zoo.  

He immediately stopped, looked around, and with a smirk on his face said, "Yeeeeessss?" Followed by everything he wanted to do at the zoo: "I want to go to the zoo.  And see all the AM-ma-mals.   And I going to see how tall the giraffe is.  It's a taaaall giraffe!  And elephants.  Elephants are at the zoo, Mommy?"    I've never seen him more motivated to get dressed and get out of the house so fast! Sweet boy was also very helpful getting his sisters dressed so we could get to the zoo quickly!

Mommy and Barrett and the Elephants

Did You Know This Is What an Elephant Says?

Payton Chillin' in her Stroller

Barrett, Payton and Some Giraffes

Parker Sleeping ... Finally, When She Wasn't Crying or Being Held

Cohen, Barrett, and Cade
These sweet boys took care of my little one and made sure he saw EVERYTHING!

All the Kids
Clearly, a certain toddler was not in the mood to take a picture.  Maybe it has something to do with what's going on in the background.

Cohen (Or as Barrett calls him, "that little guy") Protecting Barrett from Snakes

That's a Biiiiiig Fish!


Riding the Train with "The Guys"

Parks Finally Awake and Happy at the Zoo! 
She loves Miss Kara

Sleepy Boy on the Way Home
Today was exhausting!  I wish I could have slept on the way home too!  But we were able to have fun with the help of all the other moms who were with us ...which I'm so thankful for because Barrett got to have an amazing day instead of sitting at home all day with his sisters.

Until Next Time AM-ma-mals!




Sunday, May 11, 2014

Mother's Day

Mother's Day seems to always have a different meaning to me.  When I was little, it was all about making my mom's day extra special. Although,  I had no idea how hard being a mom is until I became one myself.    

As an adult Mother's Day has been: a day of anticipation of things to come as a new mommy, a reminder of the babies that I lost, and a celebration of being a Mommy that God allows me to be.  

As I spent the day with my family this Mother's Day, I was overwhelmed with the understanding of how great God really is.  If we hadn't had to endure the struggles that we went through, none of these precious babies would be here on this earth. And a life without Barrett (the sweetie that made me a mommy), Parker (the baby girl we waited for years to meet), and Payton (our bonus baby ... a little wink from God)  is unimaginable to me.  Their souls and their hearts were made specifically for me to love and nurture, and I am so grateful for the family that God has given to Matt and me. 

My weekend started out with beautiful flowers

On Sunday we went to church, out to eat, napped!, and played with the kids. 
Silly Boy

Mommy and Parker

Mommy and Barrett

Mommy and Payton

Barrett took a picture of Mommy and Parker ....

.... So I took a picture of him and Payton. 

Picked out His Own Jam Jams (yes, those would be shorts over pajama pants)

Barrett, Parker, and Payton.  I love you so much. Thank you for helping Daddy make my day so special.